Psalm 34:11-14
“Come, you children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the Lord. Who is the man who desires life and loves length of days that he may see good? Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking deceit. Depart from evil and do good; Seek peace and pursue it.”
In Psalm 34, 11-14, David makes an interesting statement here regarding the fear of God. We must learn the fear of the Lord. The fear of the Lord is not something we have by nature. We find the evidence of this in the conduct of all who have lived since Adam and Eve. Romans 3:18 is just as true now as it always has been: “There is no fear of God before their eyes.” The reason it must be taught becomes obvious once we understand that it arises and grows from one’s relationship with God.
The relationship begins with God’s calling. Before that, we may have sincerely believed that He exists, but we certainly did not know Him. The quality of respect God desires between two parties cannot exist, when they do not even know each other. Knowing of someone is far different from knowing them. This is certainly true of God, as the world has been flooded with misinformation about Him. Psalm 34:8 supports this: “Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who trusts in Him!” David instructs us to experience a relationship with Him, for only then will we know that He is indeed good.
David adds in verses 12-14: “Who is the man who desires life, and loves many days, that he may see good? Keep your tongue from evil, and your lips from speaking guile. Depart from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it.” He urges us to understand that the fear of the Lord grows as the relationship develops. The relationship develops when we follow through in submission to God in conforming to His way of life. As we do this, we begin to get a taste of what it would be like to spend eternity as His companion in marriage.
Access to and fellowship with Him, coupled with submission within the relationship, feeds a growing respect for Him and His way. By this, we come to know Him, and we are motivated to reciprocate His loving respect and to produce growth and the fruit of God’s Spirit.
